• "It was only sex"

• "But it happened so long ago"

• "Get over it"

• "I don't know what you are going through, but I do understand how you feel"

• "Cheer up"
• "You have so many things going for you so why aren't you happy"
• "Smile!"
• "What's your problem - stop moaning"
• "Shut up"
• "I'm fed up of you constantly whining"
• "It's not the end of the world you know!"
• "You're just upset.  You'll be over it soon"
• "If you don't think about it, it will go away"
• "I don't believe you"
• "Why can't you just forget about it?"
• "It happened in the past.  This is the present"
• "You could have stopped it if you really wanted to"
• "It's your own fault - you must have done something to make them do it"
• "What's done is done - live for the future"
• "I'm so sick of you talking about this - what about me?"
• "Stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time"
• "You're always so moody!!  Cheer up!"
• "Oh, but what were you wearing?" - thank you for this one, you know who you are!!  :o)

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